PRESENTER 1: "After listening to you, my perspective for love has changed very much. I realized that I didn't know love. I understood that evaluating someone according to his face, height, money and career is not love. What qualities should we look for in the people we will love for our love to be true and not temporary?" Our sister, Irmak Eser.

ADNAN OKTAR: Irmak has asked a very nice question.

PRESENTER 1: Yes, she has written very nice for you.

ADNAN OKTAR: For once, one should feel compassion for all people. When you feel compassion, affection forms. There is no love without feeling compassion. It's very dangerous. One must love someone for Allah, with a feeling of protection and as the manifestation of Allah. Look, with the feeling of protection, like your own sister, like your mother, like your wife; whatever her position is, if she is his wife as his wife, if she is not, by seeing her as his sister or his mother, one should be in a lovingly sincere feeling of protection over them. Compassion is very important.

PRESENTER 2: Yes, I especially feel compassion for children. I feel compassion for and love them. I have no heart for them.

ADNAN OKTAR: Masha'Allah. We wish them to be well, because we become happy with their joy. Our own joy is proportional with the joy of other people around us at the same time. Of course, we have joy resulting from our faith but if the people around us are unhappy then we can't be comfortable. We are human beings. It would irritate us.. well this was a bit fancy word, let me say something else, yes bother us. I don't like such fancy words, insha'Allah. Furthermore, the Light of Allah manifests in people. One should look for that beauty. For example, Allah makes us sense positive people in our hearts and makes us love them. We have already loved them in our destiny. We always meet with people we love in our destiny. We have loved our brothers and sisters, even before we have been born from our mothers, when the mud of the Prophet Adam (pbuh) was being created and shaped into a sculpture...