ADNAN OKTAR: Look, for some of our people, a man becomes an ideal candidate to be a groom if he walks on two feet and has two arms and a job. For some of them, I acquit all of them, but for some of them. The other day, I saw a scoundrel who murdered a beautiful and dear young woman. I looked at his picture, and I'm not exaggerating, he is a clear psycopath; it shows on his face. How could someone be close to this man? What kind of people are her mother, father? How could they not understand? Talk to him for once, if you talk to him for ten minutes you would understand that the man is a psycopath. It is written all over him. They become hypnotized if he has money, if he is good-looking. I mean niether his character, nor religion, faith, morality, nothing about him concerns them. They think that it is normal that he beats up, slanders and curses. They say, "He will do it anyhow; this is the way world is." No, it is not my brother. Go and live by yourself; what obligation do you have? If necessary, you would not get married for a life time. Unless a decent man comes up, who is dignified, who knows how to love, who fears and loves Allah, don't do it. What is the matter with you?

They go and get close to these psychopaths at the age of only 17 or 18, as if they were spiriting away the possessions of bair man, hastily, headlong, and those either mutilate or murder and throw away these children. There are  news on newspaper like that almost every day. It is very cheap and easy for them. Of course these women, they are not strong enough to cope with it, they are unable to  defend themselves. They show their pictures. There is another scandal every day.

Here because people don't place importance on religion, I'm saying this for some people so I acquit all of them, Allah may be creating this as a warning for them; this pain, these difficulties and troubles they go through.. I'm not just saying this for these incidents; I'm saying for all sorts of incidents. How could a man not be understood when spoken to? For example, we look and see that the man is a psychopath, very dangerous. First of all, it should be someone who is clearly understood that he would never do anything bad even when he gets angry. For example, if a person is turning into someone different when touched on his sore spot, then that man is not suitable, he is dangerous. This is a young girl. It is no laughing matter. He might punch her and, may Allah forbid, kill her. Young girls are very delicate anyway, they are children aren't they? What muscle power does she have, what strength would she possess? How could she be protected? And how do they dare? In the middle of the night, they send her to a psychopath's house just because he is rich. The man has a history, he has his past, he is known for this and they say, "Go and do whatever you'd like."  Marry him, deceive him. Brother you would have no good coming out of this. Niether in this world, nor in the Hereafter, there is no good in this. Allah would constantly give trouble. This is not the way. It should be purely for earning the good pleasure of Allah. They assume, they think that, I am saying these.. I mean they think "he is saying those of course, because he is religious." Okay I'm saying it because I'm religious but this is also a fact. This a fact that everyone will accept. There is no alternative to this. If there were a second thing then I would explain it as well. I would say, "There seems to be such a solution, but religiously don't enter into this, this would not be valid. Act according to this, this is what is right." Well, I would not say act according to this, may Allah forgive, I would have said : "Act according to the Qur'an, abide by Islam." They should believe my words. A person who doesn't fear Allah is not a trustworthy person. They should not trust the mind of someone who can't realize Allah. Because Allah's existence is very clear.

She says, "I had a friend, she hooked  him and got married" and she aspires that person. Do you know how she is groveling now there? They get deceived by the smiling pictures on the newspapers. For example, they say, "pictures of happiness." It is a fake posture there, it is a game. Everybody poses there, it is not real. For example, in a hotel all people are playing and having fun, they are joyful. You should ask their hearts whether or not that is the case, right? They should think rationally. If they are sincere, if they love Allah very much, then passion is a very strong taste. It is a very powerful pleasure. Muslims live it completely in the Heaven. Allah makes us live passion as a sample from the Heaven in order for us to understand. It is just a sample.  Allah shows us only a small part of it. Allah says, "You will live this thoroughly." To love for Allah, to experience that passion for Allah is the greatest pleasure in this world.

Those who don't know it, are constantly imitating it. You see them on the streets, under the sun, in June and July, the man is huge, the poor girl is under him, he is holding her hand with one hand and his other arm is on her shoulders like a hayfork, so the poor child can't even breathe, all sweaty. He talks constantly. I wonder what he is telling. The subject never ends. For example, sometimes I go for a walk in Bebek. They pace the streets. Well just leave the child alone so that she can rest for ten minutes. Right? It is so boring. He supposedly shows his love. He smacks again and again, his face and hands all sweaty.

PRESENTER 2:I feel bad even even while you are explaining this.

ADNAN OKTAR: It disgusts the person. Pity on the child, what kind of a torment is this? But look around you, and you will see that it is very common, very common. Some people see sincerity and cordialness as foolishness, may Allah forbid. On the contrary, the opposite is foolishness. Satan fools them there. They introduce snobbery, being a player, being a crook as smartness.  They say, "He is a ripper, he is cunning as a serpent and very through-going." My brother, those crowl like dogs. Allah takes the light away from their faces and these people are in a wretched state. They look like iguanas and one gets scared. And they don't even realize that. They think that they are just perfect and that we don't notice. One gets startled when he sees them.