ADNAN OKTAR:  Of course when our soldiers are martyred, their families become miserable, they cry, get saddened and throw themselves from ground to ground. And those men are delighted by that. They are economically aggrieved by that as well. Many of them are poor families. When we say "misery" this is what is meant. Our people see them and they get upset. This is also another form of misery. But we don't want this. This shouldn't happen. One doesn't get upset over a martyr, but one rejoices. The opposite is not acceptable. What's more let's say that the family of a martyr has come. Right? They live in a rented house. Money should be collected, that house should be bought immediately and given to the family of the martyr. This is one. From that day on, it would not be right to make them cook. Every day neighbors should cook for them collectively, one each day. You will not let them buy clothes either. For instance, you will get their size measurements and their clothes will be from us. That's it. I mean cannot neighborhood look after one martyr family?

This would be a great thing, it would be fantastic. Why leave them mistreated? Why leave them in hardship? And they shall go and read the Qur'an, talk about Allah, talk about religious subjects and explain the beauty of being a martyr. What happens when that's not done? They faint and fall on the ground. This is misery so it's not acceptable. They cry, don't they? They faint and are taken to the hospital and some have heart attacks. These shouldn't happen. This is a reason for sorrow for people. Of course sorrow is forbidden by religion but it happens. Insha'Allah. And this makes the opposing party happy. For instance, the funeral of the martyr has come; you will say to the father of the martyr, "You are our father from now on." "How many sons do you have?" Three. How many young men are there in the neighborhood? 150. They will say, "You have 150 sons from now on. Allah took one son away but gave you 150 instead." Just like his birth son. They will ask, "Father, do you have an order for us?" And that's it. They will even be more rigorous than his birth son. Sometimes birth son may not behave respectfully and may be rude, right? For instance, he is to go somewhere and this one will say "father, just call me," and he will give him a phone number. He will say "I'm your driver, I'll not never give my blessing if you don't call." He will say, "If you are going to go somewhere, you will tell me and I'll take you." Right?

My brother, this will be a good deed, it is compliant with the good pleasure of Allah and also a very big pleasure and joy. Just think how joyful such a life would be. Go and hug him. For example, you will say "mother I'm in your service." All the young people in the neighborhood will say, "Mother, you are our mother". They will say, "Just ask us." Right?

They will look after her with various foods everyday and take good care of her health. This would also be very devastating for PKK and it would also destroy the PKK propaganda. Because they tell how they influence people and say, "We destroyed them and there are sounds of screams all around, it is going perfect." They ask, "Was this on the paper?" They say, "How else it would be? We have made a big operation." That is the case. That's the thing that these men want. This should be resolved. The martyr is buried and they all go home. It's not right. That house should be full of guests everyday. For instance, if the house is small it could be made larger or they can be taken into a larger house. If the house is untended, you can take them to a spacious one. You can even change his house. You say "come on, you are my brother." Right? Everyone has something on the side to offer materially. If these are brought together as it is said "many small make a great." I mean it would be something extraordinary. It should be done without letting them know, without embarrassing them. If you embarrass them, it's not okay. You will make a surprise secretly insha'Allah. Well the word "miserable" .. okay let us not use that word, may Allah forgive, let us not say "misery".. I mean they are left in a difficult situation, I mean the result is not a good one. An appearance that would rejoice the opposing side occurs. Let us say it like that. Misery is not the right word, may Allah forgive. However, this should be done in a practical way. We have not seen something like that where we are, but this is possible for every neighborhood. One can begin by saying "Bismillah" from a single family. Let's make this an Anatolian tradition, a Turkish tradition. Let' make this a tradition. Don't they do this in marriages? They give money to the groom and they buy things for the bride. They buy presents, car, house and everything else is supplied for them. These ones go to the Hereafter. That is also a wedding, that is because he goes there as a martyr, you are sending your martyr off. Do the same as you do in the wedding, right? Everybody shall give money, offer their means, bring food and drinks.

One should also be loyal. Not if this is done for five years and forgotten on the tenth year then it would be wrong. Loyalty is very important. Until when does loyalty last? Until death and it is one of the most vital senses. Disloyalty is a despicable thing; it is very dirty and painful. For instance, he continues for ten years and he forgets on the eleventh year; this is awful. The measure for loyalty is the last breath. One should die with love in his eyes until his last breath. You will die with love of Allah in your eyes till the last moment. Your last treat for that person will be the love in your eyes and the love of Allah of course. You love that person as a manifestation of Allah insha'Allah. But of course Muslim can't   look at something bad with love insha'Allah. That's for something beautiful.