Excerpt from Mr.Adnan Oktar's live interview on Guneydogu Olay TV dated July 27th, 2010
ADNAN OKTAR: Today we had a professorguest. Let me not give his name; we were talking today. He said, "Masha'Allah, as a community, you represent the very conscious, the ideal Muslim personality." He added, "The intelligence services intentionally introduce crooked, crap people in order to humiliate Muslims." Our professor said, "You are a very good example and thus remove this mischief." Masha'Allah. Indeed he tells the truth. A Muslim should be like a flower, he has to be sensible. Young girls as well. They are to be conversable, talkative. For instance there are girls with headscarves, completely covered but [they are] rude, aggressive, skeptical, like a maniac. I very frequently encounter such types. They look down on everyone, do not talk to them. They do not perform their salad (regular prayers), they don't perform their prayers, they only perform whenever they feel like it. That is once in a month or year. For instance they see someone without a headscarf and tell unbecoming words. There is gossip, mischief. But there are also some young girls with headscarves, I also come across them. Indeed, their morality is like the morality of Hazrat Maryam, they are of a very good nature. For instance, there are some sisters without headscarves; they are very devout, they regularly fulfill their prayers, five times a day. They have moral perfection. Some of them do not perform their prayers but they are very honest, very courteous, do not tell lies, defraud, never make gossip of anyone, they live by a great part of the morality of Islam. May be they have such a shortcoming. Insha'Allah they will also fulfill it. But, looking down on people, being full of oneself, self-centeredness, pride; these are very dangerous.
One should avoid these severely. Not to be a trapper. Women are very modest; it is important that they are protected. There should be deep respect for women everywhere. For instance, in a workplace there are some vacancies; at least half of them must be women. One must be protective. Right? For instance, if she is carrying a heavy weight, you will take it from her and carry it. Not to shame them, not to aggrieve them. Women are sensitive about their chastity; this is a beauty of them. One must not put them into a fear on that point. One must avoid doing suspicious things that may cause them have doubts. That would be a pity, because her chastity is a vital aspect for her. Now a jackal brings a word forward and they burn the kid. For example, there is a gossip being told in the neighborhood and some stupid people believe it and spread it around and then the kid is shamed by that. There you go for no reason. Almighty Allah says, "Anyone claiming this should bring four devout witnesses fulfilling their obligations, and they will see it with their eyes." Almighty Allah says "they are to see it with their own eyes and hear with their own ears and there will be four people, four sound Muslims." Allah says that if they do not do these and if they still defame a woman then Allah says "But those who make accusations against chaste women and then do not produce four witnesses: flog them with eighty lashes." Let them bear that if they can. Eighty lashes, right?
OKTAR BABUNA: Yes Master insha'Allah.
ADNAN OKTAR: Look, this is a manifestation of Allah's compassion for and protection over women. Because woman is a delicate being; she does not endure bad words or sorrow. Her psychological balance is very important. You will not make her live fear, you will make her live respect, love, reverence, elegancy and protection and you will treasure her. You will make her feel that you respect her. You will take care of her health. She may be offended over a small thing. You will show special effort for her not to be offended. You are to clarify things because suspicious things prepossess her. What is the problem? Clarify it and say "I did this for that reason". So that she can be relieved. Right? If she is suspecting.. You saw that she is a little wry, then you do something to open her up. They are Allah's escrow for us, they are perfect creatures, ornaments of the world. And that is the greatest blessing. There are plants, flowers, animals, food and all.. but women are the greatest blessings. Insha'Allah. One should appreciate the blessing insha'Allah.
One does not say "save yourself" to a woman. For instance, she comes to the hospital, there is a line; you say "you go first." You are a man; go inside a little while later, so what? If there is a heavy weight, you will take it upon yourself. There is a lady, a 20 year-old girl standing on foot on the bus. This is not acceptable my brother. No. Anything can happen. So make her sit down some place so that she can be protected and safe. A man has to be jealous of every woman and protect her. That is being jealous in the sense of looking out for her. You are a brave fellow, a big lad; you will sit down and a young woman will stand there among those people… There can be people who bother her or anything can happen. She would get tired on foot as they are vulnerable creatures. Give your seat. You are a young man; Allah will give strength to you. So that she can be comfortable there. How nice it is. You would be conscientiously comfortable and earn the love and appreciation of all the people there. How nice it is for people to love you, right? Everyone would appreciate that behavior there. That is a silent demonstration of good morality. Right? For example, there is a line somewhere and you say "come on sister, do not wait on foot. Come here. I'm a young fellow, nothing will happen to me, you solve your things instantly" And there is also no need to wait for her appreciation or thanks. One needs to go from there silently. This is only a small section of what will happen in the time of Hazrat Mahdi (pbuh).
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